Small or Large bridal party?

Laura Seymour
Jan 2, 2023
3 min read

Updated: Apr 11

Small vs. Large Bridal Parties: What’s Right for You?

When it comes to planning your wedding, one of the many decisions you’ll face is choosing the size of your bridal party. As someone who has performed at countless weddings, I’ve seen the unique dynamics of both small and large bridal parties. Each has its own charm and challenges, and it’s all about finding the fit that complements your vision for the big day.

Let’s explore the pros and cons of small versus large bridal parties to help you decide what works best for you.

The Beauty of Small Bridal Parties

There’s something incredibly intimate about a small bridal party. With fewer people by your side, the day feels more focused and serene—a perfect balance when wedding nerves might already be in play.

One of the most noticeable benefits of a small bridal party is how much easier it makes the getting-ready process. With just a handful of people, hair and makeup become less of a logistical marathon, and you’ll have more time to relax and enjoy the morning.

Additionally, smaller groups often allow for deeper connections. You’re surrounded by your closest loved ones who know you best, making the moments leading up to the ceremony feel even more special. And, of course, fewer people can mean you have more flexibility to spoil them with personalized gifts or cover expenses like dresses or suits.

However, a smaller group might mean leaving some people out, which can be a tricky decision. A thoughtful compromise could be inviting those not in the bridal party to share in special moments like getting ready or joining you for the rehearsal dinner.

The Joy of Large Bridal Parties

If you’re envisioning a wedding day full of energy and excitement, a large bridal party might be just what you’re looking for. More people means more laughter, more stories, and more hands to help with everything from planning to dancing the night away.

Larger bridal parties can make a grand statement in photos and processions. Imagine all your favorite people walking down the aisle before you or joining you for those fun champagne-popping moments captured on camera.

On the practical side, having a big crew can lighten the load when it comes to planning. Whether it’s DIY decorations or wrangling relatives for group photos, extra hands always come in handy.

But with a bigger group comes more to coordinate—personalities, schedules, budgets, and logistics. It’s essential to be prepared for the added complexity and costs that can come with a larger party.

So, What’s Right for You?

Ultimately, the size of your bridal party should reflect your personality, your relationships, and the atmosphere you want to create on your wedding day. A small party might be perfect for a quiet, intimate celebration, while a large one could bring all the vibrancy and excitement you’re dreaming of.

As someone who loves seeing the unique touches couples bring to their weddings, I know there’s no right or wrong answer. Whether you choose a small, close-knit group or a lively, big crew, the people by your side will make your day unforgettable.

If you’re still deciding, I’d love to hear about your plans! Whether it’s the walk down the aisle or the first dance, I’d be delighted to help you create the perfect soundtrack to match the special moments shared with your bridal party.