Candid vs. Curated Wedding Photography: A Violinist’s Perspective on Capturing the Mood

Your wedding photos are so much more than just pretty pictures – they’re timeless memories, wrapped in emotion and light. And just like the music you choose, the photography style you go for will shape how your wedding day is remembered for years to come.

As a professional wedding violinist, I have the joy of being part of countless ceremonies and receptions, and I get to witness the magic from both sides of the camera. Whether your celebration is documentary-style and spontaneous, or elegant and editorial, the right music and photography work hand-in-hand to create atmosphere, emotion, and a day that truly reflects you.

Here’s a look at two of the most popular photography styles – and how your music choices can complement each one.

Candid Wedding Photography: Real, Raw, and Full of Feeling

Candid photography captures the unscripted. It’s all about real moments – the deep breath before you walk down the aisle, the spontaneous laughter at a speech, the way your guests dance when they think no one is watching.

This style is ideal for couples who want their wedding to feel relaxed, authentic, and full of life. If the idea of posing makes you feel a little uneasy, or you’d rather focus on being in the moment, candid photography lets the story unfold naturally.

As a violinist, I find candid weddings lend themselves beautifully to soft, emotive background music. 

A solo acoustic violin during the ceremony, or gentle covers during the drinks reception, creates a romantic soundtrack that blends into the background and enhances the mood, without interrupting the flow.

Curated Wedding Photography: Timeless, Artistic, and Picture-Perfect

Curated photography is more composed and intentional. Your photographer will guide you through elegant poses, lighting, and settings that create refined, magazine-worthy images. It’s perfect for couples who want their day to look polished and editorial, while still capturing genuine emotion.

Live violin music pairs beautifully with curated photography. 

As your photographer sets up the perfect shot, a solo violin performance can elevate the elegance of the moment. I often play during golden hour portraits or during choreographed first dances, where every frame is designed to feel cinematic.

What Does Your Style Say About You?

If you’re drawn to candid photography, you’re likely spontaneous, sentimental, and all about the heartfelt details. You want your wedding to feel like a celebration of love, laughter, and connection.

If you lean towards curated, you likely appreciate thoughtful details, timeless beauty, and a bit of visual drama. You’ve probably envisioned how every detail will look – from your gown to your florals to your music.

Of course, many couples are somewhere in between – wanting both natural moments and polished portraits. That’s where a mix of both photography and music styles can create a well-rounded, emotionally rich experience.

Matching Music to Mood

Just like photography, music sets the tone. For a relaxed, candid-style wedding, acoustic covers of meaningful songs, stripped-back ceremony pieces, and ambient music during key moments can help maintain a free-flowing atmosphere.

For a curated celebration, consider dramatic classical pieces, modern instrumental arrangements, or even a solo violin version of your favourite love song to match the elegance and depth of your visuals.

Final Thoughts: Create the Experience That Reflects You

There’s no “right” or “wrong” choice when it comes to photography or music – only what resonates with your personalities and vision.

Whichever path you choose, remember this: the way your wedding feels is just as important as how it looks. And when music and photography align, they create something truly magical.

I'd be honoured to provide the soundtrack that enhances your chosen style and brings your day to life – moment by beautiful moment.

Ready to craft a wedding day that looks stunning and sounds unforgettable? Let's chat about how live violin can set the perfect tone.

Best wishes, Laura

Laura Seymour Violin