Register For Gifts Or Anything Goes?

Thoughts on Wedding Gifts – What’s Right for You?

Have you considered whether you’d like to register for gifts or take a more open approach when it comes to wedding presents?

Some couples prefer the ease and organisation of a wedding registry, ensuring they receive items they truly need or love. Others enjoy the personal and heartfelt surprises that come with an open gift policy, allowing guests to choose something unique and meaningful. There is no right or wrong way – it’s all about what suits you as a couple!

Registering for Gifts

A wedding registry can be a wonderful way to guide your guests towards gifts that will truly enhance your newlywed life. If you are opting for this route, here are some top choices to consider:

Top 10 Wedding Gift Ideas

1. Personalised Keepsakes – Custom gifts such as engraved picture frames or monogrammed towels add a sentimental touch that lasts a lifetime.

2. Luxury Bed Linens – High-quality sheets or a sumptuous duvet can bring comfort and elegance to your home.

3. Cooking & Dining Ware – Elegant dinnerware or premium cookware is perfect for couples who love to cook and entertain.

4. Experience Gifts – A cooking class, wine tasting, or a weekend getaway creates cherished memories beyond material gifts.

5. Home Décor – Stylish vases, framed artwork, or timeless furniture pieces can help personalise your space.

6. Subscription Services – Monthly meal kits, streaming services, or wine clubs can be thoughtful and practical gifts that keep giving.

7. Travel Vouchers – Contributions towards flights, hotels, or activities for your honeymoon or future adventures.

8. Smart Home Gadgets – From smart speakers to security systems, modern tech can make home life more convenient and enjoyable.

9. Custom Artwork – Commissioned paintings, illustrations, or maps of a special location can be deeply meaningful.

10. Charitable Donations – A donation to a cause close to your heart allows guests to contribute to something you truly care about.

The Classic (and Often Overdone) Wedding Gifts

While these gifts are always given with the best of intentions, they often end up as duplicates or remain unused:

• Toasters – A kitchen essential, but many couples find themselves with more than one!

• Monogrammed Towels – Beautiful, but they don’t always match the couple’s chosen décor.

• Picture Frames – A lovely gesture, but how many frames does one home need?

• Vases – Useful, yet often given in abundance.

• Wine Glasses – A thoughtful choice, though many couples already have plenty.

• Scented Candles – Fragrance is very personal and doesn’t suit everyone’s taste.

• His & Hers Mugs – Cute but not always practical.

• Blenders – A kitchen favourite, but often an item that multiple guests gift.

• Bathrobes – Luxurious, but not always something couples use.

• Decorative Plates – Beautiful but sometimes impractical for daily use.

If you’re not registering, but would still like some influence over what you receive, consider gently guiding your guests towards more personal or experience-based gifts.

Money Towards Your Honeymoon

Instead of traditional gifts, many couples now prefer contributions towards their honeymoon. It’s a practical and heartfelt way for loved ones to play a part in your first adventure together as a married couple.

To make this feel personal, consider sharing details about your travel plans—where you’re going, what experiences you’re looking forward to, and how their contributions will make your trip extra special. That way, each guest feels connected to your journey and excited to be part of your memories.

Choosing What’s Right for You

Ultimately, there’s no right or wrong answer when it comes to wedding gifts. Whether you opt for a registry, an open-gift approach, or contributions towards your honeymoon, the most important thing is that it aligns with your wishes as a couple. And of course, the true gift is the love and support of your family and friends as they celebrate this beautiful moment with you.

Thanks for reading—more to follow again soon!

Best wishes,

Laura Seymour Violin